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5 Reasons to Stop wasting time on a man

5 reasons to stop wasting your time on a man who won’t commit

  1.  The universe thinks you’re okay with this relationship and nothing or nobody better will come along.
  2. If your spending all of your time with a man who won’t commit, your boyfriend or husband cant find you!
  3. This type of behavior will just bring down your self-esteem.  You will continue to feel bad about yourself.  You will think it okay at the moment. Although, when you are home alone, you will beat yourself up in wondering why your not good enough for him to want you as his girlfriend or wife.
  4. He gets all the benefits of you playing girlfriend or wife without the cost of putting anything into it.
  5. You are worth so much more than a man just giving you crumbs. When a man is fortunate enough to receive your love, time, body, companionship with no label of wife or girlfriend, it is time to run.  It is time to run into the arms of a man who will value you, love, and call you his own.

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Toxic people bye-bye

Have you been living a life surround by toxic people?  Do you even know if you are surrounding yourself with toxic people?  Take a few minutes and think about the people in your life.  Think about your family, friends, boyfriend, husband, etc.  How do these people treat you? Are they nice and supportive of your life, thoughts, and ideas?  Or do they put you down and are negative?

If the people in your life are making you feel bad about yourself and bringing you down, then they are toxic.  Rid yourself of the toxins.  Surrounding yourself with toxic people is like putting poison in your system.  After a while, it will make you sick and even kill you.  It will definitely kill your spirit and blow out the light that shines from within.

Getting rid of these toxic people is not an easy thing to do.  The hardest people to rid yourself of are your family.  Just because they are your family, doesn’t mean that they have a free pass to be toxic to you.  We can choose to not have them in our lives even if they are blood.

The first thing you do is decide on who those toxic people are.  Believe that you are worthy of have good, positive people in your life. Start taking care of yourself and doing things that are for you.  Then gradually start avoiding them.  Go out and bring positive people into your life.

When you start putting out that positive vibration into the world, the world will start giving back the positive vibration.  Life is too short to surround yourself with ugly, mean people who don’t value or deserve you.

Surround yourself with beauty and positive people who are just like you!

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The Four E’s for a successful Party

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1.   Expectation:  How are you going to start the party theme or look of the party.  This would include everything from invitations, emails, text or phone calls to the people you are inviting to the party.  

2.   Entrance:  How will it look when your guest arrive?  What will be the first thing the attendees see? Some things that one might choose from are balloons, streamers, music, lighting, cocktails to candles.

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3.  Everyone is appreciated:  How will you thank your guests for sharing this day with you?  You can use many items such as party favors, candy, bubbles, thank you cards, etc.

4.  Eating:  What type of food and drinks will be served?  You can choose from a variety of foods such as Mexican, barbeque or absolutely any other type of foods.  The secret is to include all of the tastes sensations such as sweet, bitter and salty to create the effect of satisfaction.  

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TEDx

We are now getting involved with TEDx.  Check our bio on TEDx and learn and follow my passion.  Here is an excerpt:

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An Idea worth spreading

Divorce can be looked at as a positive path to a new beginning.  Divorce can be celebrated.  You can move on and be happy with the next chapter in your life.  Using feng shui and decluttering your home can change you, your relationships and all areas of your life.  There is positive after a very hard time as divorce and there are positive ways



to get past it.  One way is to have a divorce party and celebrate the new you.  Make changes in your environment to make the changes in your life.

I’m passionate about

I am passionate about self-improvement and helping others in there is life after divorce.  Teaching and mentoring others by my experience. Teaching others that divorce doesn’t have to be the end.  It can actually be the beginning.  It’s up to you to take action.  Have a divorce party and celebrate moving on. My passion is my ebook Divorce Party On!

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To Online Date or Not to Online Date? That is the question?

In my option?  I think it is a great avenue to get yourself out there. There are a few little must do in order to be successful.

  1.  Pay for an online dating service. Do not do the free ones.  You get what you pay for. Do you really want to attract and get a guy that can’t even shell out a few bucks to meet you?
  2. Post several pictures of yourself. Smile! Guys like the smile and will respond more times then if you don’t.  Don’t just post selfies.  Make sure that you post full-length pictures of yourself.  (It doesn’t matter if you have  a few pounds or more on you) When you meet, they are going to see you anyway.  It is worse to show up and them not be into you because you not a size 2.  If that’s what the guy wants?  Move on, he’s not for you.  Also, DON’T post pictures of your kids.  You love your kids. We get it.  But this is not the place to show off those adorable kiddos.  First, there are a lot of pervs out there that are looking for women with kids. Keep your kids safe. Secondly, most guys will be turned off with the kid pictures.  They want to see you, not them.
  3. Be honest in your profile.  Don’t say you like skydiving if you’re afraid of heights.  If you love to garden, then put that in your profile. There are a lot of guys out there who love when a girl gets down and dirty in the garden.  You can even use that in your post.  Love to get down and dirty in my garden.
  4. Be playful and fun. Don’t make it look like a resume.  Keep it short and sweet.  Guys don’t have a long attention span.  They will read a few sentences and then turn off.  If it is too much reading they won’t even bother.
  5. Buss words that you can throw into your profile that guys like are: No drama, fun, happy, love life, like to learn new things. State somewhere in there what you are looking for in a guy.  Don’t be too demanding and expecting too much. When you first start on a dating site, It will show that you are new to the dating site.  Most of these guys are lifers.  They use the site as a meat market like back in the day when guys went to bars to hook up.  That still happens.  But there are guys on online dating sites that don’t have to leave there house to get laid.  So, watch out.  You will have more emails, winks and likes that you can handle.  Be picky and choose the ones that you think fit your tastes.  Beware of the profiles that look too good!  You will find the ones with the perfect headshots of guys.  They seem to always be widows, making 100,000+.  Their profiles go on for paragraphs. They will send you an email that says that you are perfect, beautiful and that they are not on the site for long and here is their email.  They will ask you to contact them via email or phone number. If you check back on their profile in a few hours or day, they will be gone or have a hidden profile.  Those are scams So please be careful ladies.

Have fun with the online dating and you never know.  You might meet your second Mr. Right.  The first one, the ex-husband was just a trial run. If anything, you can meet a lot of fun guys, make friends and go out to some really cool restaurants and coffee houses.  Be safe ladies.  Meet in a public place.  Do not let them pick you up at home until you know for sure they are safe. Check them out on Facebook before you meet them, Facebook is the window into peoples life. Good Luck!

 

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To Online Date or Not to Online date?

To Online Date or Not to Online Date? That is the question?

In my option?  I think it is a great avenue to get yourself out there. There are a few little must do in order to be successful.

  1.  Pay for an online dating service. Do not do the free ones.  You get what you pay for. Do you really want to attract and get a guy that can’t even shell out a few bucks to meet you?
  2. Post several pictures of yourself. Smile! Guys like the smile and will respond more times then if you don’t.  Don’t just post selfies.  Make sure that you post full-length pictures of yourself.  (It doesn’t matter if you have  a few pounds or more on you) When you meet, they are going to see you anyway.  It is worse to show up and them not be into you because you not a size 2.  If that’s what the guy wants?  Move on, he’s not for you.  Also, DON’T post pictures of your kids.  You love your kids. We get it.  But this is not the place to show off those adorable kiddos.  First, there are a lot of pervs out there that are looking for women with kids. Keep your kids safe. Secondly, most guys will be turned off with the kid pictures.  They want to see you, not them.
  3. Be honest in your profile.  Don’t say you like skydiving if you’re afraid of heights.  If you love to garden, then put that in your profile. There are a lot of guys out there who love when a girl gets down and dirty in the garden.  You can even use that in your post.  Love to get down and dirty in my garden.
  4. Be playful and fun. Don’t make it look like a resume.  Keep it short and sweet.  Guys don’t have a long attention span.  They will read a few sentences and then turn off.  If it is too much reading they won’t even bother.
  5. Buss words that you can throw into your profile that guys like are: No drama, fun, happy, love life, like to learn new things. State somewhere in there what you are looking for in a guy.  Don’t be too demanding and expecting too much. When you first start on a dating site, It will show that you are new to the dating site.  Most of these guys are lifers.  They use the site as a meat market like back in the day when guys went to bars to hook up.  That still happens.  But there are guys on online dating sites that don’t have to leave there house to get laid.  So, watch out.  You will have more emails, winks and likes that you can handle.  Be picky and choose the ones that you think fit your tastes.  Beware of the profiles that look too good!  You will find the ones with the perfect headshots of guys.  They seem to always be widows, making 100,000+.  Their profiles go on for paragraphs. They will send you an email that says that you are perfect, beautiful and that they are not on the site for long and here is their email.  They will ask you to contact them via email or phone number. If you check back on their profile in a few hours or day, they will be gone or have a hidden profile.  Those are scams So please be careful ladies.

Have fun with the online dating and you never know.  You might meet your second Mr. Right.  The first one, the ex-husband was just a trial run. If anything, you can meet a lot of fun guys, make friends and go out to some really cool restaurants and coffee houses.  Be safe ladies.  Meet in a public place.  Do not let them pick you up at home until you know for sure they are safe. Check them out on Facebook before you meet them, Facebook is the window into peoples life. Good Luck!

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My Life went to the Dogs After My Divorce

MY LIFE WENT TO THE DOGS AFTER MY DIVORCE!

And it was a good thing!

I had always heard about how getting a dog was good for companionship and love. Hmmm? Really?  I didn’t believe it. I had always loved dogs. I had dogs in the past. My friends had dogs.  Dogs were a lot of work, I thought.  I had a list of reasons why Not to get a dog.  Then after several trips to the pound and several visits to adoption fundraisers I took the plunge.

I had spent many months alone and wondering where I would go from here.  I tried dating sites and going to bookstores, and coffee houses and still nothing had changed.  I wasn’t meeting anyone.  And the men that I was meeting were making me feel even more lonely.

PetSmartI found myself with my daughter in church one day.  I had always told her to pray for grace.  I wanted her to feel that peace.

We decided to visit the animal shelter to look at dogs as we had done many times in the past.  We noticed a cute dog that we took home.  When decided on the name, we thought that she should be named Grace. How we prayed for grace in our lives and we go Grace in our lives.

WAYS TO BEGIN CREATING THE NEW YOU

Take time to journal, meditate and envision what type of women that you would like to become.  Write down specific things you want to change or improve such as weight, hair color, clothes, job, car, home relationships, etc…  You have just taken the first step.

 

TEDx

We are now getting involved with TEDx.  Check our bio on TEDx and learn and follow my passion.  Here is an excerpt:

An Idea worth spreading

Divorce can be looked at as a positive path to a new beginning.  Divorce can be celebrated.  You can move on and be happy with the next chapter in your life.  Using feng shui and decluttering your home can change you, your relationships and all areas of your life.  There is positive after a very hard time as divorce and there are positive ways to get past it.  One way is to have a divorce party and celebrate the new you.  Make changes in your environment to make the changes in your life.

I’m passionate about

I am passionate about self-improvement and helping others in there is life after divorce.  Teaching and mentoring others by my experience. Teaching others that divorce doesn’t have to be the end.  It can actually be the beginning.  It’s up to you to take action.  Have a divorce party and celebrate moving on. My passion is my ebook Divorce Party On!

To Online Date or Not to Online Date? That is the question?

In my option?  I think it is a great avenue to get yourself out there. There are a few little must do in order to be successful.

  1.  Pay for an online dating service. Do not do the free ones.  You get what you pay for. Do you really want to attract and get a guy that can’t even shell out a few bucks to meet you?
  2. Post several pictures of yourself. Smile! Guys like the smile and will respond more times then if you don’t.  Don’t just post selfies.  Make sure that you post full-length pictures of yourself.  (It doesn’t matter if you have  a few pounds or more on you) When you meet, they are going to see you anyway.  It is worse to show up and them not be into you because you not a size 2.  If that’s what the guy wants?  Move on, he’s not for you.  Also, DON’T post pictures of your kids.  You love your kids. We get it.  But this is not the place to show off those adorable kiddos.  First, there are a lot of pervs out there that are looking for women with kids. Keep your kids safe. Secondly, most guys will be turned off with the kid pictures.  They want to see you, not them.
  3. Be honest in your profile.  Don’t say you like skydiving if you’re afraid of heights.  If you love to garden, then put that in your profile. There are a lot of guys out there who love when a girl gets down and dirty in the garden.  You can even use that in your post.  Love to get down and dirty in my garden.
  4. Be playful and fun. Don’t make it look like a resume.  Keep it short and sweet.  Guys don’t have a long attention span.  They will read a few sentences and then turn off.  If it is too much reading they won’t even bother.
  5. Buss words that you can throw into your profile that guys like are: No drama, fun, happy, love life, like to learn new things. State somewhere in there what you are looking for in a guy.  Don’t be too demanding and expecting too much. When you first start on a dating site, It will show that you are new to the dating site.  Most of these guys are lifers.  They use the site as a meat market like back in the day when guys went to bars to hook up.  That still happens.  But there are guys on online dating sites that don’t have to leave there house to get laid.  So, watch out.  You will have more emails, winks and likes that you can handle.  Be picky and choose the ones that you think fit your tastes.  Beware of the profiles that look too good!  You will find the ones with the perfect headshots of guys.  They seem to always be widows, making 100,000+.  Their profiles go on for paragraphs. They will send you an email that says that you are perfect, beautiful and that they are not on the site